First - background, then question.
I have a DataGrid which is populated with dynamic data pulled from a web server (PHP accessing MySQL). This works nicely.
But if I also include image URL's for little preview thumbnails (100x75) for each row of the Datagrid, then I get a huge slowdown for showing the data. This is because the images have to be fully downloaded as each Row is constructed so they can be displayed. Also, if an image is missing at the URL then LC will either Hang or Crash!!!
To get around these points I would like to use the "Load" command to pre-load the image URL's into cache and then I know they are there (or not) and don't need to wait for them to download before displaying the text part of the DataGrid.
Now, the question...
How can I send a custom message to a specific row of the DataGrid? i.e.. I have created a custom handler in the behaviour script for the row, but I can't figure out from the Docs how to actually do a simple "send" to a specific row of the grid.
I know this should be simple, but it's got me stumped

I have determined the row index via the dgDataOfIndex array, but there doesn't seem to be any way of associating that with a way of calling the row group.
Can anyone help?
I hope the above makes sense, if not then I can try and clarify.
Cheers,
Dave