My younger son, who went to University at UPENN and belonged to a fraternity, went,frat houses
with all the "brothers" to the funeral of one of their brothers
who was gay and had been so badly handled by his father that he committed suicide.
So, 'brogrammers' maybe, but fraternities are not all like "Animal House", which, by the way
was inspired by where I took my masters: Southern Illinois at Carbondale.